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AI Feels Like a Frenemy—But It Might Just Be the Best Teammate You’ve Ever Had

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Let’s be honest—humans don’t exactly thrive on sudden change. Unless we’re talking about our teenage son’s mood swings. That, we’re apparently built for.

But AI? It’s not just change—it’s a category 5 hurricane of it. It’s reshaping everything: our jobs, our schools, our sense of what’s real (was that influencer even real? Was her dog real?!). And if you’ve ever sat in front of a chatbot thinking, “Wow, this is either genius… or Skynet,” you’re not alone.

So let’s unpack a few lessons I’ve been noodling on after work today—because if AI is the new co-worker, I’d really like to know if I’m supposed to bring it coffee or a surge protector.


1. Humans vs. Change: We’re Not Great at It

The truth is, AI is moving faster than your Wi-Fi during a Zoom meeting in a thunderstorm. And while some folks are embracing it like a shiny new Peloton, others are hiding in the breakroom with a donut and denial.

But here’s the twist: how AI changes the world? That’s up to us. Will it be a threat… or the biggest opportunity since leggings became work-appropriate?


2. The Line Between Real and AI Is Blurry

I’ve seen AI-generated videos so realistic I started questioning my own reflection. Is that me, or a deepfake with better skin?

We’re living in a “blended reality”—where your chair is real, your voice might be AI, and your next Zoom meeting could be hosted by a chatbot named Kevin. Stay curious. Stay skeptical. And maybe stop trusting Instagram filters.


3. Is AI Here to Steal My Job or Just Do the Boring Bits?

Yes, AI can do tasks humans used to do. (Like answering emails without sighing loudly first.) But it can also take the soul-sucking parts off your plate—so you can focus on the good stuff: strategy, creativity, or just surviving Monday with grace.

So don’t ask, “Will AI replace me?” Ask, “How can AI support me?” (And also—can it pick up groceries?)


4. AI Doesn’t Have Feelings—Even If It Sounds Like It Just Read Brené Brown

Let’s set the record straight: AI has no feelings, conscience, or ethical compass. If it seems warm, empathetic, or like it just watched a tearjerker romcom—it’s faking it. Don’t get emotionally catfished by a robot, friend.


5. Creativity + AI = Superpowers

Whether you’re a writer, marketer, or mum crafting yet another school newsletter, AI can help outline, brainstorm, refine, and edit. It’s like having a very fast (and slightly robotic) creative intern.

You’re still the artist. AI just holds the brush when your hand gets tired.


6. AI as an Intellectual Gym Buddy

Need help practicing your presentation? AI. Want to structure your blog posts better? AI. It’s the supportive gym buddy that never judges your sweatpants or your seventh snack break.


7. Automate the Tedious Stuff

Track your workflow. Find the repetitive stuff. Automate it. I used to spend 10 hours doing tasks AI can now help with in one. That’s nine extra hours to do literally anything else—like drink coffee slowly. Like, real slowly.


8. Prompting Is the New Googling

Want great results from AI? You’ve got to ask the right way. Think of prompting like giving directions to a very eager (but clueless) intern. Be specific. Set the tone. Say, “You’re my virtual social media manager—write me five captions for mums who’ve had it up to here with homework drama.”

Boom. Magic.


9. Give It a Role—Like the Teammate It Wants to Be

The best way to use AI? Assign it tasks with clear roles. Emails, reports, client replies—let it wear one hat at a time. I once had AI respond to a tricky customer complaint. It was warm, polite, and most importantly—not me at 10 PM on a Saturday.


10. Train Your AI. Yes, Really.

Think of AI like a very eager puppy. The more you train it with examples of your tone, your workflow, your quirks—it becomes your own digital assistant that never forgets anything. Unlike me, who regularly loses her phone while holding it.


Final Thoughts:
AI isn’t the enemy. It’s not a genius overlord, either. It’s a tool. A powerful, weird, sometimes hilarious tool that can help you work smarter, create faster, and maybe—just maybe—even enjoy your job more.

Just don’t ask it to fold the laundry. That’s still on you.

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Feby Lunag

I just wanna take life one step at a time, catch the extraordinary in the ordinary. With over a decade of experience as a virtual professional, I’ve found joy in blending digital efficiency with life’s little adventures. Whether I’m streamlining workflows from home or uncovering hidden local gems, I aim to approach each day with curiosity and purpose. Join me as I navigate life and work, finding inspiration in both the online and offline worlds.

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